Couples ask me for wedding photography tips and tricks at almost every consultation, and they usually expect me to talk about cameras. I don't. After 17 years of shooting weddings around Los Angeles, from Malibu bluffs to downtown lofts, the tricks that change a gallery are almost all decisions you make months before I lift a camera: when things are scheduled, which room you get ready in, who holds the family list, and what color the DJ turns the ballroom.
These are the moves I actually use, and the ones I quietly push my own couples toward. None of them cost extra. A few of them save you money.
The Short Answer: Most of the Tricks Live in Your Timeline
If you only take one thing from this post, take this: good wedding photos are scheduled, not captured by luck. Light, time and access decide most of what your gallery looks like. The camera decides the rest. That's why I build a full wedding day photography timeline with every couple before we ever talk about poses.
1. Do a First Look and Buy Back 45 Minutes
Honestly, I think a first look is the single biggest photo trick available to an LA couple, and I'll argue for it every time. When you see each other before the ceremony, we can finish wedding party photos, most family formals and a relaxed couple session before guests arrive. That frees 45 to 60 minutes after the ceremony, which means you actually get to enjoy your cocktail hour.
It matters most in winter. In December, sunset in Los Angeles lands around 4:45 PM. A 4:00 PM ceremony with no first look leaves you doing portraits in the dark. In June, sunset is closer to 8:05 PM, so there's more room, but you still gain an unhurried hour.
If a first look feels wrong for you, that's completely fine. Do a first touch through a door, or trade letters without seeing each other. Just know what you're trading.
2. Steal 20 Minutes at Sunset, Not Two Hours at Noon
The prettiest light in Southern California lasts far less time than people think. On the coast, the good golden-hour window before the sun sinks into the marine haze is often 20 to 25 minutes, which is why I tell couples to hire for light. So I schedule a sunset sneak-out: the two of you, me, and 15 to 20 minutes, usually right after dinner is served and before toasts start.
Twenty minutes at 7:40 PM in July beats two hours of portraits at 1:00 PM on a Malibu overlook every single time. Midday sun here is hard and straight overhead. It carves shadows into eye sockets and makes everyone squint.
3. Pick the Getting-Ready Room for the Window
The huge bridal suite with blackout curtains and one table lamp looks great on the venue tour and terrible in photos. What I want is one large window, ideally not in direct sun, and a wall that isn't busy wallpaper. A modest downtown hotel room with a floor-to-ceiling window will out-photograph a massive windowless suite at a Beverly Hills estate.
Then clear the clutter. Twenty minutes before I arrive, have someone move the garment bags, water bottles, coffee cups and phone chargers into the bathroom or a closet. It's the cheapest editing you'll ever pay for.
4. Put Every Detail in One Box
Rings, invitation suite, vow books, perfume, shoes, jewelry, the heirloom handkerchief: put all of it in one shoebox and hand it to me when I walk in. I've lost 25 minutes at weddings hunting for rings across three different purses and a groomsman's jacket. With the box, detail photos take about 15 minutes and I'm back to photographing people, which is the part you'll care about in 20 years.
5. Hand the Family List to a Wrangler
Family formals go sideways for one reason: nobody knows who's supposed to be in them. The fix is a written list with names, not relationships ("Uncle Dave and Aunt Rosa," not "Dad's side"), plus one loud, organized cousin or friend who knows everyone and whose only job for half an hour is fetching people.
A good rule of thumb is two minutes per grouping. Fifteen groupings is 30 minutes. Keep the list tight and it flies by. The same logic is behind my case for a focused shot list over a 300-item spreadsheet: write down what's unique to your family and let an experienced photographer handle the rest.
6. The Ceremony Tricks Nobody Mentions
A handful of small choices during the ceremony make an outsized difference:
- Ask your officiant to step aside for the kiss. Otherwise I get a beautiful kiss with the officiant's face dead center between you. One sentence at rehearsal fixes it.
- Go unplugged. Have the officiant announce it before the processional. I'll be blunt: the most common thing ruining aisle shots today is a guest leaning into the aisle with a phone or an iPad.
- Walk slower than feels normal. Nerves make everyone speed-walk. Half speed gives me four usable frames instead of one.
- Pause at the end of the aisle. After the recessional, stop, turn to each other and kiss again. It's one of the most joyful frames of the day and takes five seconds.
- Put the sun behind you, not in your faces. Planning an outdoor ceremony at 3:00 PM? Ask your coordinator where the sun will sit at that hour. Backlight is flattering. Sun in the face means squinting and hard shadows.
7. Treat the Marine Layer as a Gift
Couples panic when May Gray or June Gloom rolls in over Palos Verdes or Point Dume. Don't. An overcast sky is basically a giant softbox. Skin looks even, nobody squints, and I can photograph you facing any direction. Some of my favorite beach galleries were shot under a gray ceiling at 11 AM. The genuinely hard days are the cloudless, blazing ones at midday, and those I plan around with open shade and timing.
8. Veto the Purple Uplighting
This is my most opinionated tip, and most photographers won't say it in front of your DJ: saturated purple, red or blue LED uplighting ruins more reception photos than any camera ever saved. It turns skin a gray-magenta and can't be fully corrected in editing without the whole room looking fake. Warm white uplights, candles, bistro string lights and amber tones all look gorgeous. If you love a color, keep it on the walls, never washing across people's faces.
9. Use Your Engagement Session as a Rehearsal
An engagement shoot isn't just for save-the-dates. It's where you learn how I direct, where your hands go, and that nobody looks awkward once they stop trying to pose. Couples who've done an engagement session are noticeably more relaxed on the wedding day, and their portraits come together in half the time. It's one reason I recommend booking engagement and wedding photos with one team.
10. Three Posing Tricks That Work on Everyone
- Breathe out right before the shot. Shoulders drop and faces soften. Holding your breath reads as tension in every frame.
- Give your hands a job. Hold a lapel, a waist, or the bouquet at belly-button height. Chest height is the most common mistake I see, and it hides the dress.
- Talk to each other, not to me. I'll give you something to whisper. A real laugh beats "say cheese" every time.
11. Book Photo and Film as One Team
When photography and videography come from two unrelated vendors, they spend the day stepping into each other's shots: the aisle walk, the first kiss, the first dance. I've watched it happen at dozens of weddings. At ConneryFilm, wedding photography and cinematic film come from one team under one roof, so we plan our angles together, work from a single timeline, and nobody's elbow shows up in your highlight film. It also means one contract, one point of contact and one crew your coordinator has to manage instead of two.
What I'd Do If It Were My Wedding
First look. A ceremony timed to end about 90 minutes before sunset. A 20-minute sunset sneak-out. A family list with names and a cousin in charge of it. Candles and warm string lights at the reception. An unplugged ceremony. That's the whole list. None of it costs a dollar more, and together it would do more for the gallery than any lens upgrade I could buy.
FAQ
What is the most important tip for good wedding photos?
Build your timeline around light. Schedule portraits for the hour before sunset, give family formals about 30 minutes, and leave buffer between events. Timing decides more of your gallery than gear or editing style.
How much time should we set aside for couple portraits?
Plan 30 to 45 minutes total, split between a session after the first look or ceremony and a 15-20 minute sunset sneak-out. Much more than an hour tends to wear couples out and pulls you away from guests.
Should we give our photographer a shot list?
Give a short list of family groupings with names, plus any moments unique to you, like a grandmother's ring or a cultural tradition. Skip the generic 200-item Pinterest list; an experienced photographer already covers those.
What time should an outdoor ceremony start in Los Angeles?
Aim for the ceremony to end roughly 90 minutes before sunset. For a 30-minute ceremony that means starting around 6:00 PM in June and around 2:45 PM in December, which leaves time for formals and golden-hour portraits.
If you're planning a Los Angeles wedding and want a team that builds the whole day around the light, photography and film together, I'd genuinely love to hear about it. Call or text 818.749.7039 or look through our work at ConneryFilm.com, and let's talk through your date.
Meet the Author: Connery Davoodian Hello, I'm Connery Davoodian, the visionary behind ConneryFilm, and I'm thrilled to share insights from my 17-year journey through the world of wedding photography and videography. My passion extends beyond simply capturing images; it's about artfully weaving your unique love story into a timeless, cinematic masterpiece. My artistic path began long before I ever picked up a camera, deeply rooted in music as a singer, songwriter, and multi-instrumentalist. This diverse background in directing, producing, and editing has cultivated a unique perspective, allowing me to approach each wedding not just as an event, but as a dynamic narrative waiting to be beautifully told. This blend of technical mastery and creative storytelling is the heartbeat of ConneryFilm, ensuring that every frame, every shot, and every film is infused with depth, emotion, and unparalleled artistic integrity. At ConneryFilm, we believe your wedding memories deserve nothing less than bespoke luxury. My philosophy centers on capturing the authentic, unscripted moments – the genuine smiles, the tender glances, the joyful laughter – that truly define your day. While we obsess over exquisite details and sophisticated aesthetics, our true joy comes from making you feel completely at ease, like a "friendor" who genuinely celebrates alongside you. This calm, organized presence allows your true personalities to shine, resulting in images and films that are as real and vibrant as your love itself. Based in the heart of Los Angeles, California, my team and I are privileged to serve couples across the globe, bringing our signature high-end wedding photography and videography to destination weddings worldwide. Through these blog posts, I aim to share invaluable insights, luxurious inspiration, and practical, fun advice to guide you through your wedding planning journey, helping you make informed decisions about preserving your most cherished moments. Thank you for trusting ConneryFilm to be a part of your extraordinary adventure. I'm excited to share my knowledge and passion with you, helping you create memories that will last forever.